“Mom, does COVID mean I won’t get anything for my birthday?”
It’s the question you’re dreading if your child has a birthday coming up. You want the day to be special—to include things that can help them feel normal and safe, but it isn’t easy, is it?
So what do you do?
If your kids are like mine, they’ve been planning their birthday all year long. Not only do they look forward to their own birthdays, they eagerly anticipate attending their friends’ birthday parties and making them feel special.
Virtual parties and drive by greetings are a great solution. These are amazing ways to pivot the traditional birthday party and help kids feel celebrated, special and—most importantly—loved.
Giving Gifts, Safely
Just because it’s a virtual party or a drive by greeting, doesn’t mean the birthday kid needs to forego their gift. Giving is important, it’s their birthday after all!
At Wish & Give, we get it. It really is better to give than receive. (Though receiving is pretty good too!) Giving gifts isn’t only important for the birthday kid; it’s important for guests too! But actually going to a store these days can seem like taking your life in your hands.
Here’s the thing: Wish & Give’s invitations have always been virtual! Our invitations mean that your guests can virtually contribute to an amazing group gift and, to keep that goodness going, a donation to charity. It’s win-win for everyone! Your birthday kid can choose the gift or experience they really want and experience the joys of kindness and generosity by fundraising for their favourite cause.
The Birthday Kid Wins:
- Lets your child know they are loved and remembered by friends near and far
- They’ll receive the gift or experience they actually want
- Teaches them how to support a cause they care about
- Feels like they’re part of something with their friends, supporting a common cause
Guests want to give!
- Feels good about giving a gift in a safe, meaningful and easy way
- Opportunity to support charity – a dose of happy hormones!
- Stress-free giving – (no masks, gloves or hand sanitizer required!)
- Saves time – no shopping, no wrapping
Parties may have changed a little, but kids still need a chance to celebrate and be celebrated. While we all look forward to a swift resolution to the crisis this pandemic has caused, in the meantime, you can help your kid feel amazing.
Get started with your Wish & Give invitation at www.wishandgive.ca and don’t by shy to ask your guests for gifts! They want to give.
There’s no doubt about it: things are a little crazy right now. But in the midst of the fear and anxiety over COVID-19, celebrations are all the more important.
In my family we have five birthdays in the next few weeks. Since we all live in different parts of the world, we don’t usually get together. But over time, we’ve learned a few clever tricks to make birthdays special even when we’re miles apart. So if you or your kids have a birthday in the next couple of weeks or months, here are three ways to “lock down” your birthday celebration and have some safe, friendly fun in the midst of a pandemic.
- Virtual Baking Competition
Do you love baking shows? My family does. And you can do your very own family bake-off using your favourite social media tools. This year, the cousins in our family are getting together to do a Sugar Rush style competition virtually. We’ve chosen one day to bake a spring-themed cake or dessert—you can choose whatever sparks joy for you! Once your confections are done, connect with your family and show off your creations. (You can even get Grandma and Grandpa to judge!)
- Throw a Virtual Party
You can’t catch COVID-19 over the Internet, thank goodness! Plan a time with your friends, create a Zoom link (free for up to 100 connections) and invite your friends and family and come together for a virtual party.
Add in an online quiz where everyone uses their smart phone to answer questions—a fun and friendly competition! There are lots of choices online—my favourite is Kahoot. Just set up the quiz ahead of time and everyone can use their smart phone to answer in real time. It’s a great way to get to know the honoured guest.
If your kids are missing their school friends, you can also use Zoom to help them get together. Ask the class parent to send the link to the class so that everyone can come online and sing happy birthday to your child. (You’ll also be giving all those kids’ parents a few seconds of break.)
One bonus? There’s no limit to the guest list when it’s virtual!
- Donate to Charity
Now more than ever our small Canadian charities will need our support. They are often on the front lines helping people access food and essential services. Set up a Wish & Give link and ask your friends to donate in lieu of individual gifts. Your local food bank will thank you!
You can contribute the cost of dinner or bottle of wine to the charity of your choice and use your birthday to spread a little compassion during a crisis. I promise you’ll feel great about yourself. Win-win!